Monday, August 26, 2013

Growing Together!!

Today while cleaning up Siddharth room, Reet came and helped me. When reet born everyone told me that now you will have a different experience, girls are very different. They are emotionally more attached to you. Today i can understand what they meant, a small job which i need to tell Siddharth more than ten times, reet is helping me on her own. I am not comparing my two kids; we are all different from each other.  Reet is a little explorer while Siddharth has been always a creative child. He amazes me with many things he makes from lego. His airplanes and car design i sometime believe i should get it patented. 

Life is growing at a fast pace with two of them around, when i see both of them growing with love and affection towards each other. It gives me a feeling of calmness that they are there for each other. They both have a gap of more than eight years, but when they are together it never seems. She can give him an equal response when he teases her, he can play with her as if she is equal to his age. They both fight with each other and then they are together. He teases her by taking away the things she likes; she teases him with love from us. She never allows him to come near me when i am holding her. She sleeps early and he reads late. But they are never apart.

Life is all about the difference i can make in their life. When they grow up, they will be leading their own life, making their own future. I will remember these days of growing together through this blog and when i am not there they can come and see this space, how beautiful the life is when you grow together!! 

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

गर्मी की छूटी से जन्मदिन तक!!

This space has been ignored for a very long time.. Life is running at its pace. My mind is occupied with so many things that could not get time to concentrate and write. Today when i read the blog of my other friends it inspired me to write the post. This post is an update on the life spent in the last three months.

In my last post where Reet has started walking, today she walks completely. The journey from first steps to the more steps has been wonderful. I talked to myself that when we go to pick Siddharth from school after the summer vacation, Reet will walk on her own. As if she listened to my thoughts and the moment we steeped out of the house, she walked on her own. That was the first day that she walked and did not hold my finger.

The summer this time was very different from all other holidays, With Siddharth reaching to his preteen age and getting more independent he wanted to do activities on his own . His love for books has increased so much that he did not like to do anything in the summer. We finished the whole project work for summer in the last three days, where we both had great fun in creating poems, crosswords and different layout for his work. We had conflicts on the opinion where i took time to understand what was in his mind and finally i agreed to him. 

After the summer, Reet started walking. It took me time to believe that she was on her own now. Her love for exploring thing has experimented many things from our wallet to each drawer in the house. She can make tower by staking pieces.

With both of them growing, there are some moments where i felt that time should stop here. Here are the few pics

 उड़ी, नींदें आँखों से जुड़ी, रातें ख्वाबों से मूडी, यह जाने मैं कहाँ!!